July 23, 2014 / admin

Beyond the Love 2014

It is that time again– time to think about traveling to beautiful Columbus Ohio! For an amazing Poly Weekend Long Con!

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July 7, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

Polyanna’s Musings: We are not here to recruit you…

So often we hear that we “alternative lifestyle types” are evil, because we are here to recruit and corrupt “good kids.” Or the moral objection raised to gay marriage, gay parenting, poly relationships and poly parenting is “think of the impressionable kids.”¬†

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July 1, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Poly Promises

I was surfing the Kinky & Popular section of FetLife today and came across this writing, by someone who goes by the name dynamitedawnn. You can view it, if you are registered on FetLife, by clicking this link .

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June 21, 2014 / Fidelity, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

A random moment from my life

It hit me today, one more time, just how very poly I am, and how much that shapes my life into something very different from the Midwestern norm.

A girlfriend of mine, who also happens to be my wingman, [which may be another story for another time] sent me a short text message today.

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June 6, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

Atlanta Poly Weekend

I am sitting in my hotel room in Atlanta, GA, waiting eagerly for Atlanta Poly Weekend to begin. #APW2014

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April 30, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

April 29, 2014 / Communication, Intimacy, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: Be you

I stumbled upon this blog and post while on a social networking site. I think it is worth reading. I’m not sure I would have picked the word boring. I do think less than honest fits. I do think that when men or women decided to enter into a friendship or relationship with murky motives, that’s a problem.

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April 23, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Long Distance Relationships – LDRs.

They can be challenging, yes, but they can be rewarding as well. They can be really good. A few years ago, I had come to a point in my life where I had decided that a LDR was just not going to be an option. I set a limit of one hour travel time in my mind as my maximum distance. Of course, a few months later I met, and fell in love with, a person who lived over two hours away.

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April 11, 2014 / Communication, Fidelity, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Endings

Breakups suck. They really do. Sometimes phenomenal, long term, stable relationships find themselves at a sudden ending.

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February 19, 2014 / non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Lucar’s thoughts – Chicken or egg?

This post is meant to add my thoughts to what PolyAnna has already written here. Her basic question could be stated as, “Is poly a deliberate choice, or a natural orientation?”

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