May 19, 2013 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

Trophies

I am currently in the process of falling in love. Yes, I am in that emotional, irrational, deliberately half blind place we call NRE.

It is not an easy place to be as, frankly, I had no intention of adding a relationship to my life, but yet – here I am.

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May 19, 2013 / admin

e[Lust] #46

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May 3, 2013 / Communication, emotional intimacy, non-monogamy, physical intimacy, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: Choosing revisited

True confession time: I love Vampire Diaries. I know. Hate me if you want to. It is full of teen angst and melodrama. Looking past that, it is an emotionally charged roller coaster. I think it is a realistic portrayal of how humans actually deal with their emotions, or rather, don’t.

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April 16, 2013 / admin

e[Lust] 45

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April 13, 2013 / Communication, emotional intimacy, Fidelity, Intimacy, non-monogamy, physical intimacy, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: Open Book or Blaring Radio

At our local poly meeting we discussed a new topic for us : Relationship Agreements – Discussions for solid foundations. (Spiffy title, right? One of the group leaders is a writer, so you know ;) )

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April 4, 2013 / Fidelity, non-monogamy, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: Different is good right?

I am just getting back from vacation and back into the normal rhythm of our days. My days are basically ruled by the whims of the school distract. I am a slave to their calender and whims.

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March 18, 2013 / Chosen family, Communication, Fidelity, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: Radar Love Part 2

So I want to revisit my last post. I am fully aware that the idea of a radar isn’t a perfect image for how we can work to redefine our relationships. The opportunity for geeking out is huge. It is a bit of an impersonal device to turn into a relationship model.

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March 17, 2013 / admin

eLust #44

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March 5, 2013 / Communication, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna Musings: Radar Love

It is no secret that I dislike vehemently the idea of hierarchical ordering of relationships. Do those words sometimes flow off my tongue— grrr… yes. I still don’t like it. There isn’t anything else. There just isn’t. At least not now.

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January 29, 2013 / Communication, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory

PolyAnna’s Musings: Civility– a long lost art form

I stopped dating a few years ago. I took down my profile on a popular dating site. I striped my profile down to nothing on a popular alternative site– keeping it open only at the request of my partner.

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