Archive for May, 2012

May 29, 2012 / Chosen family, emotional intimacy, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: What about the kids?

I get this question a lot, "what about the kids?" What about them? They are surrounded by love. They see people caring for one another, caring about them. Where is the down side? My husband and I d

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May 26, 2012 / Intimacy, mara, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Rediscovering Poly – Pt 2

Today the Editors of Looking Through Us are pleased to feature another post from Mara. Rediscovering Poly - Pt 2 Last night, I spent some time with another man. He and I barely know each other,

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May 22, 2012 / emotional intimacy, Fidelity, Intimacy, non-monogamy, physical intimacy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: The things I wish I had known…

Mina at Longing's End wrote a wonderful PSA: So, You're a Secret. This is something that in retrospect makes so much sense to me. I was in a year long relationship, a relationship that in reality w

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May 20, 2012 / Uncategorized

e[Lust] #36

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice

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May 8, 2012 / Chosen family, Communication, Fidelity, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: There is no forever

The other evening Lucar and I were talking. It made me thoughtful. Thoughtful about words like promise, vows, forever. I dislike these words. My husband and I had no real say over our wedding vows,

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May 3, 2012 / physical intimacy, Relationship dynamics

Poly Fallacies #4

Sex is not such a big deal. I have been told since my hippie days that sex is nothing but a simple physical act, and for much of my life, I believed it. It went like this: You insert Tab A in Slot

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May 1, 2012 / non-monogamy, Polyamory, Uncategorized

PolyAnna’s Musings: Poly Activism

I follow Modern Poly on Twitter. They routinely provide the poly community with some very solid information. The other day on their feed I noticed a link to their Tumblr blog and I have posted an exce

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