Archive for October, 2012

October 25, 2012 / Communication, emotional intimacy, Intimacy, Relationship dynamics

What does SHE give him that I don’t???

This question came up in a FetLife forum recently. It was asked in an honest sense as a caring person, rather than from a place of jealousy. It's not an easy thought for me to respond to, because it s

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October 18, 2012 / Chosen family, emotional intimacy, non-monogamy, Relationship dynamics

George Santayana

In general, I tend to think of George Santayana as a wise man. Several of my favorite life quotes are by him - for example: Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it. [The orig

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October 11, 2012 / Intimacy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

Choosing – a followup

Last weekend, I took a couple of very well-behaved proto-people [aka children, in this case age 7 and 10] to the animated movie Hotel Transylvania... a mass of pure silliness that is unlikely to win a

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October 8, 2012 / Intimacy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: Choosing

I know, I have been AWOL. You will all be happy to know, that I have been somewhat attentive to productive pursuits during my time away. Reading being one of them. I did have plenty of reading time th

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