Archive for June, 2016

June 21, 2016 / Fidelity, Relationship dynamics


There is a harsh reality in relationships that people don’t want to admit. This applies whether you are swingers, or polyamorous, or in relationship anarchy, or in a traditionally monogamous relatio

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June 17, 2016 / non-monogamy, Polyamory

The ownership paradigm

Because it is so relevant to what I said yesterday. Full credit to kimchicuddles!! I love it!!

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June 16, 2016 / Fidelity, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

What does that mean?

What do I mean when I say I am polyamorous? Polyamory - [from the LT.Us glossary] The word polyamory comes from Greek  [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor. [love] We will use “polyam

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June 7, 2016 / Communication, Relationship dynamics


It seems that people like me, those of us who seek to guide others toward healthy relationships, are always talking about communication. We get tired of talking about it. Trust me, it seems that every

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June 1, 2016 / Fidelity, Relationship dynamics

Rule 12: Never date a co-worker

Somewhere on social media I recently read about a poly person who was attracted to his wife’s co-worker. He asked if this rule applied. I learned the basic lesson decades ago - dating a co-worker is

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