Archive for the Polyamory Category

May 15, 2016 / Communication, Fidelity, Intimacy, non-monogamy, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: Relationships as group projects

Sometimes people seem to think that relationships, because they involve sex or love or both are some kind of a special snowflake. That they require some magic sauce. That they are mysteriously going t

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March 20, 2016 / Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: What do I want?

I've been meditating on a question that I keep getting asked: "What do you want?" Or some version of it. First it was a friend who asked me. Then my therapist and just this week new guy (NG) ask

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February 1, 2016 / Chosen family, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s musings: Please stop with “the most”

So hey there! I know I have been a stranger. Turns out being on the board of an emerging 501 c 3 is rather time consuming. That said, I am back and going to try to do more writing in 2016. Today I

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April 14, 2015 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

PolyAnna’a Musing: Opening Love Book Review

Recently I received an advance copy of  Dr. Anya's book -- Opening Love. I received no compensation for this review. This is my open and honest review of her book.   Opening Love is a

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February 4, 2015 / Chosen family, Communication, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

PolyAnna’s Musings: Limits

It seems every time I hit my yoga mat in 2015, I am having some sort of "ah-ha" moment. Last week I was crying... It became clear to me, during the breathing, the pausing, the movements that I was goi

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November 14, 2014 / Communication, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics

Beyond the Love 2014: Reflections of a personal nature

I'm feeling the peer pressure to write a review of Beyond the Love 2014. Living within Reason features a very in depth and organized recap of the weekend. I am not going to try and do that. Whew.

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October 10, 2014 / Communication, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

Letting go of the violent relationship language

I've been working on my presentations for my upcoming workshops. It's been amazing. Yesterday, rereading some wise words written by dawn of Erotic Awakenings, it occurred to me. We do our relationship

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September 12, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

Beyond The Love 2014 – with PolyAnna

Celebrating Polyamory Beyond the Love returns to Columbus, Ohio  November 7th-9th 2014! Update! Ticket sales are now live! Join us at this exciting three day event. *Workshops, social act

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August 27, 2014 / Chosen family, Intimacy, non-monogamy, Polyamory, Relationship dynamics, relationship structures

PolyAnna’s Musings: History and Now

So last week my husband and I helped move his girlfriend. It was fun. It was also crazy hot and humid and she lived up several flights of stairs. Thankfully she moved to a flat. The physical act of

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August 15, 2014 / Communication, non-monogamy, Polyamory

Coming Out, at the Bank

So yesterday, I came out. At the bank. For those of you, who have been reading here for awhile now, you know that Lucar and I are more or less not out or out depending on the situation. I have not

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